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I am missing my MIDDLE CLASS life-style and values!

" bhumika... speak on lower pitch! it seems like u r shouting, not talking! remember this is not your GORWA! " - keyur always reminds me about my highly amplified voice tone... as he expects i should talk less n that also at lower pitch! [ don't laugh! he s not d one who give up!... let him try!] " ok.. i will remember it next time your highness ! and i have reminded you 1000 of times that it has nothing to do with GORWA, so dnt involve it ! you better recall you had to come from satellite to GORWA to convince my parents! " it was the same reply with a smile every time!!!! [ as i know he always knowingly include GORWA to discussion just to pull my legs!] now if you dont belong to Baroda[india] , you might not be able to understand the core of above discussion! GORWA is a middle class area, where i have been living for 21 years! now i belong to Ahmedabad- satellite as a bahu of SHAH family! in last week when my dear sis went to baroda for her vacations with he...

I respect all those women who work for their children!!

નિષ્ઠુર માતાએ પુત્રને સુરસાગરમાં ફેંકી દીધો http://www.divyabhaskar.co.in/2009/11/05/091105030813_mother_throw_her_baby.html i was listening to a gazals of jagjit singh.... was about to reach to surat station , travelling by Bhilad Express... and suddenly one pf my co-passenger showed me this news... i read it.. and cdnt speak a single word! 1 tear drooped out.... "keyur , dont throw those toys.. heer loves them... i know half of them are broken... bt heer s attached wid them and i also feel they are special as they belongs to my princess!.... naah... i am not going to dump her old cloths either!!! i can still smell her from her cloths... and all her belongings are special for me to be treasured for lifetime! dammm to diwali safai.. i will put all safely somewhere for ur satisfaction! " i wonder! i cant even dump my baby's old toys/cloths.... and somewhere near me... a mother dumped her child! i feel i was not so much emotional..... but after being a mother , it was my ne...

when i met Paresh rawal Uncle ....

It was 9.30 AM... place :: surat railway station i was waiting for a rickshaw.... "bhagad", "chawk", "parlepoint", "athwagate" .......... yeah... i waved for that rickshaw... got my shuttle-rickshaw to reach to athwagate . [ what is shuttle-rickshaw ??? - please dont search for d meaning of it on GOOGLE ! its a local word... let me explain u d meaning! Shuttle rickshaw is a rickshaw where more many unknown persons share a rickshaw just for the sake of cost cutting! concept is very poppular in every city for working persons.. specially i do prefer it as i think why to spend 20 RS when u can get to d destination in 8 rs? .... joyu have vaniya jeu vicharta shikhi j gai! ] coming back to todays episode.... i was alone in rickshaw for just 2 minutes.. n after that i found 2 other persons seating next to me! one elderly uncle of my father's age just besides me.. n a young girl besides him... two more young guys accompanying the driver ... [to...

People laugh as I am DIFFERENT, I laugh coz they are all SAME!

"हजारो ख्वाहिशे ऐसी के हर ख्वाहिश पे दम निकले.... बहोत निकले मेरे अरमान.... मगर फिर भी कम निकले!!!" "Look at HEER.... keyur, She is so happy! She s absolutely new Heer we have discovered on this diwali at ahmedabad unlike what she was, who loved to be lonely wid mom n dad only, now she loves to be wid full family, plays[ i should say fights!] with cousins, roams around wid dada-dadi, gets adored wid mota papa-mummy! dammm... we gotta go back tomorrow... back to normal-boring routine, back to atomic family!!! why we cnt have a joint family? why ??? " - what my words left unsaid.... all was said by the tears .... { what do we mean by a joint family these days??? a family where we have mom, papa, kid, grand parents living together... [happily or unhappily ... its out of context! ] but... as i remember before some years .... joint family meant where you can find the whole family including mother, father, kid, grand parents, uncles, aunties, their families, gran-gra...

Arranged Love Marriage:: Is it worth?

New book From Chetan Bhagat - 2 States 2 States Love marriages around the world are simple: Boy loves girl. Girl loves boy. They get married. In India , there are a few more steps: Boy loves Girl. Girl loves Boy. Girl's family has to love boy. Boy's family has to love girl. Girl's Family has to love Boy's Family. Boy's family has to love girl's family. Girl and Boy still love each other. They get married. and story finishes! They lived happy ever after! Is it so ???????????????? as an answer i can write a novel .... [ahhh.... sure i can... but who will read?] from my point of view.... above story is near to many youngsters, as many have faced it and many still facing! its fascination.... to fall in love, to raise in love, to hang out wid love [ of course chori-chori, chupke-chupke!] , to make ur family meet and like [forcefully always!] ur choice... and to get married wid everyone's will and support[ is that possible really?]! its all like a fairy dream.....

The first man a girl falls in love with is her PAPA!!!

"ohh come on PAPA... not again, i m takin good care of mine [ do i?? ]! yeah, i do carry a lunch box everyday [ ohhh... really? ], yes i am commuting safely [ ohhh, its safe these days to get in train from wrong side even! IF u take some precautions! ]... yes papa i am drivin scooty very slowly [ hummm... 50-60 its slow for me... atlast i drive slower than keyur{i m caomparing speed of scooty wid scorpio!} ], papa i am going to see a doctor soon , dont worry [ really ? the only doc i visit freq is a medical store from where i purchase medicines without prescriptions! ] , papa i am getting enough sleep....[ ??? ]....................... papa , why dont u come down to my place n see how do i manage? [ ooops what will heppen if he wl really come ??? ] ..... " ahhh... i am so much good it telling lie! did i said truth to papa ? naah... i just told, what will make him happy n content! ---- its a usual dialog between me n my PAPA.. i feel he must have direct connectio...

Freedom :: Being Female

Freedom :: Being Female! let me tale u one incident! [those who are expecting a funny post may stop reading!] "A" is a female of the age 28/29, she is working women and married. recently while "A" was travelling by train [ "A" is also commuting...] , "A" found the person seating opposite to her was staring her badly! "A" neglected it, and continued her novel and music... After some time, That stranger waved his mobile to "A", and held mobile in a way that "A" could see Mobile's screen. that mobile was showing some number[ it was that stranger's number...].. "A" neglected him again... and continued to her reading n music! as "A" s destination station was about to come, that stranger offered her a newspaper to read, which she denied knowing his mindset... and she was sharp to find that on the newspaper that stranger had written his name and number in big lattes! "A" avoided it, but...