કિટ્ટા કિટ્ટા…. કિટ્ટા…

કિટ્ટા કિટ્ટા…. કિટ્ટા…
કિટ્ટા કિટ્ટા…. કિટ્ટા…

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કનુ :

ઇલા તારી કિટ્ટા…

ઇલા:

કનુ તારી કિટ્ટા…




ઇલા:

મારી પાસે મીઠી મીઠી શેરડી ને સિંગો

લે હવે તું લેતો જા હું આપું તને ડીંગો

કનુ :

મારી પાસે ખાટી મીઠી આંબલી ને બોર

એકે નહીં આપુ તને છો ને કરે શોર



ઇલા:

જાણે હું તો આંબલી ને બોર નો તુ ઠળીયો

ભોગ લાગ્યા ભાગ્યના કે ભાઇ આવો મળીયો


કનુ :

બોલી બોલી વળી જાય જીભના છો કુચ્ચા

હવે કદી કરું નહી તારી સાથે બુચ્ચા




ઇલા:

જા જા હવે લુચ્ચા….


ઇટ્ટા અને કિટ્ટાની વાત અલ્યા છોડ

ભાઇ બહેન કેરી ક્યાં જોઇ એવી જોડ


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--- reading above BALGEET u must be remembering your childhood TOFAN with ur siblings!!!

Its fun to be CHILD!!! as u can behave childish, do unexpected things, dream for nething [when i was child my dream was to be prime minister like INDIRA GANDHI! ... now u stop laughing!!]

i remembered this song as i had similar "MITHA-ZAGADA" with my bro.

Niraj, he is my brother oops... i should say my best buddy , brother, guide, critic n more! we have shared 26 years of pure fun together[ 26 ?? as he s 1 year younger then me!] . i like him because he is like me. he thinks straight, he believes in education, he lives in dreams, he enjoys differences, he lives in emotions and acts practical!

this post is not purely written to butter up my bro! its @ our કિટ્ટા કિટ્ટા…. કિટ્ટા…

recently we had a chhota mota zagda.. [ i think less chhota and more motta] . recently he got married and being his best friend and sis, i was supposed to be present at wedding prior then wedding day. i was also very much eager to attend the same. as a prior arrangement i had packed my baggage[ 6 bags for 2.5 persons for 2 days stay!] , had filed my casual leave at institute and was dreaming to be at wedding! all set!!! but wait.... if all goes normal it can not be bhumika's life! just 1 day before we were planning to leave my daughter got a bit ill. Now as this was Heers official first trip anywhere and summer was on boom, we were much concerned , worried and decided to cut size our trip [ though my hubby forced to continue, knowing my bond with groom, how i could take chance being a mother!] now.....

inside ME:: a mother denied to go.... and a friend insisted to be at wedding prior... i was caught in mix feelings! at last mother won!

i could only attend wedding, reception... but missed fun before wedding, garba n all that. he is now કિટ્ટા કિટ્ટા…. કિટ્ટા… with me... though he knows me better, so trying to catch up with me! but i feel this time i have hurt him, myself n our feelings!

i tried to explain myself - IT'S LIFE.. but i know its an excuse!! if in place of my brother's wedding ,it had been my brother-in-law's wedding, i must had attend it anyhow , even in worst condition!
why???

now thats the point.
Being a girl, we are suppose to balance two families morally! but actually we are educated by our culture and surroundings to give emphasis on IN-LAWS family [, and consider our family before marriage for granted ] .. its true may be in some sense, but puts me emotionally in critical condition as i love both family a lot same ways!

hope i find out some ways to balance all relations !

Sorry bro!