A Daughter Remains Daughter Till The End Of Her Life , A Son Remains A Son Until He Gets His Wife!!!
" Mumma.... Mumma!" - Its very usual, as soon as i park my Scooty in our parking [ See how smartly i showed that my new house has a good parking area as well! ] HEER runs towards door leaving all her activities aside! Not just for me! She loves visitors at home! As soon as the door is knowcked, before we can, she approaches the door, and after realising that she cnt open it, looks at us and says - "Khooo , Khooo"..[ Kholo.. in her language...]'
"What happened? Why you are sounding so low? Heer did some mischief again ? " - asked to my dear hubby... I wonder how exhausted he must be, as he need to manage business , Heer as well as a big load -ME!!!
" Nothing more... lets have dinner "- Ohh... there s something wrong i smell!
"Miththi [heer].... what happened ? What you did with Papa? Ask papa what happened? " - while serving dinner My Miththi [ Heer] helps me a lot! She is "big" now to help Mumma...
"Papa.... Khichchi ape chhe.... Ape chhe! " - One has to develope own kind of interpreter to understand a kid's language.. [ Heer loves to eat from his papa's dish only! n she loves khichadi just as much as i do! ]
" Go to ur Mumma... and ask her!" - Ohhh.. attitude... Keyur is the only person , whom i cant win in showing attitude!
"Come on , you know she loves to eat from your hands, from ur dish, while seating on your lap! "- It was truth....It is truth.. Miththi[Heer] is Papa's gal! ahhha... may be my house is exception in lot many cases...
"Ohhh... Is it so ? thats why when she wakes up She shouts MUMMA!!! when she sleeps she asks for MUMMA.... When she falls she cries for MUMMA.... when she feels to have something she shouts for MUMMA! " - Keyur said without even wasting time to breath !
"OMG... So.. you are jealous! Wow... I cant believe MR. Keyur Shah, GREAT Shree Keyur Shah is jealous of me.... " - I felt so happy and sad at the same time!
"Come on, You only told me, that "Father is father else all other are snakes of jungle!" [ બાપ એ બાપ બીજા બધા જંગલ ના સાપ !].....
and do you remember when i had restarted my job, on very first day i had cried a lot, as i felt HEER will not be more attached with me just like other normal mothers!!! you only explained me," that she is my blood! The first sound she heard was my HEART-BEATS... the first communication to her was made by me, intentionally/ unintentionally! and GOD has hardwired a single word in her heart as well as brain that is - Mumma !!!"...
Now, you are feeling bad! come on she LOVES you more, that we both know!!! " - ahhaa... how good lecturer i am! but sometimes my lecture do impact! My words made keyur feel better!
and do you remember when i had restarted my job, on very first day i had cried a lot, as i felt HEER will not be more attached with me just like other normal mothers!!! you only explained me," that she is my blood! The first sound she heard was my HEART-BEATS... the first communication to her was made by me, intentionally/ unintentionally! and GOD has hardwired a single word in her heart as well as brain that is - Mumma !!!"...
Now, you are feeling bad! come on she LOVES you more, that we both know!!! " - ahhaa... how good lecturer i am! but sometimes my lecture do impact! My words made keyur feel better!
" Yeah.. you are right! " - keyur agrees to me very few times!
" I am always right! BTW, keyur we should be prepared with the fact that Heer will gradually hang out wid friends in place of being with us...
She will choose some one for her and her priorities will change!
She will be part of some1 else's family and we will have to understand that she cnt be with us always!
Please try and accept the truth! " Its tough a lot to have a daughter.. from her birth you prepare yourself for her wedding and parting!
She will choose some one for her and her priorities will change!
She will be part of some1 else's family and we will have to understand that she cnt be with us always!
Please try and accept the truth! " Its tough a lot to have a daughter.. from her birth you prepare yourself for her wedding and parting!
"Bhumika, cant we have GHAR-JAMAI ? why society has such rules? I cant live without HEER!" - keyur ," the best father" awarded by me n heer spoke the same as i felt!
" Neither can I !" - we both had eyes wet still smile on our face and kissed our little angel!
"A Son Remains A Son Until He Gets His Wife ....A Daughter Remains Daughter Till The End Of Her Life !! "
{just a saying.... no personal remarks about son.. as the male readers may feel WTF ... }
Image courtesy :: [1] My Miththi , [2],[3],[4] GOOGLE Images
Comments
"A Son Remains A Son Until He Die" .....lol
good post !!!
AGREE WITH U 100%
as i have stated have just used the SAYING as reference!
:)
a kid is always lovely regardless gender!
@ jaynath
sorry dude but u knw girl is soft hearted then boy n girl or woman can easily express her feelings then boy or man so may thts y there is different btwn gals n boys...
After all Papa ki pari hu main
How about starting a new tradition( Can't we?) Dikari vidaay ne badle Dikaro vidaay. :D
Your angel is very beautiful like you..
I just got married before a year.
i was also feeling like that. why i have to go to other family?
very thoughtful
i agree with you
but son does not remain son only because a female comes into his life
One of my best frnd has a baby last year and she told me this line, and i cannot agree more...
" There is a time when you can't imagine your life with a baby, and when they are in your life You can't imagine a life without your baby"
I think all the parents will agree with it :)
I always love to read your posts simply for the fact that the simplicity with which you explain deepest emotions is execptional....