tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post122954953285036995..comments2023-10-10T02:02:41.343-07:00Comments on કોફી WiTh ભુમિકા ....: અસ્તિત્વ ખોજ :: ઉગવા , પાંગરવા ને વિકસવા માટે ની જગદ-ઓ-જાહેદ...bhumikahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05299675026010907000noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-17932139567758696842011-07-18T07:43:11.985-07:002011-07-18T07:43:11.985-07:00nice write-up. ava j article apta raho e shubhkamn...nice write-up. ava j article apta raho e shubhkamna:)Bhushanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08051724454222915557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-21696894536457701052011-06-03T12:23:16.096-07:002011-06-03T12:23:16.096-07:00એકદમ શાર્પ અને ક્રિસ્પ લખાણ ભૂમિકા...અને એનાથી વધુ...એકદમ શાર્પ અને ક્રિસ્પ લખાણ ભૂમિકા...અને એનાથી વધુ શાર્પ ટોપિક....લાઈફમાં જેમ દોસ્તો નસીબ થી મળે છે, સાસરું પણ કંઈક એમ જ મળે છે (હું બંને પક્ષ થી વાત કરું છું, છોકરા માટે પણ આ વાત થોડી તો લાગુ પડે છે ) બટ, સાસુ અને પતિ જો થોડા પણ ફ્લેક્સિબલ અને અન્ડરસ્ટેન્ડિંગ વાળા મળે તો આ સમસ્યા જ ના ઉદ્ભવે, પણ લોકો ના માઈન્ડસેટ તમે ક્યારેય નથી બદલી શકતા....લગ્ન પછી જે વાતો પહેલા સારી લાગતી હોઈ એના પર ગર્વ લેવાય છે, પછી પાછળ થી એ જ મેલ ઈગો અને 'ભયાનક પઝેસીવનેસ અને દાદાગીરી' માં પરિણમે છે..આ એવી સમસ્યા છે જેમાં પતિ જ બેસ્ટ ફ્રેન્ડ બની કંઈક હેલ્પ કરી શકે અને જિંદગીને ખરા અર્થમાં જીવવા જેવી બનાવી શકે....બાકી બધી વાતો છે, છોકરીની પોતાની સ્વતંત્રતા ક્યાંય ખોવાઈ જાય છે.... Keep writing Bhumika....All the best...Bhavin Adhyaruhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01302322296804710659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-70923476030100218802011-06-03T01:23:09.924-07:002011-06-03T01:23:09.924-07:00Bhumikaji,
I think just like you, i like ur artic...Bhumikaji,<br /><br />I think just like you, i like ur article, & also read some book, blog on on this point. But what is the meaning to write all these. It change our society thought? girl should be strong & follow teat for tat.DARSHANA KAKKAD SACHDEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01141229906789488814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-32471247033168216572011-06-02T23:24:20.524-07:002011-06-02T23:24:20.524-07:00Welcome back girl!!!!! exactly the type of write u...Welcome back girl!!!!! exactly the type of write up I had thought!!! nice come back... )Aakankshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11971939152087655543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-53279886662484952412011-06-02T22:53:17.146-07:002011-06-02T22:53:17.146-07:00we have to do compromise at all stage of life ... ...we have to do compromise at all stage of life ... and if we are not going to do any compromise then all will uncomfortable with us...Krishna The Universal Truth..https://www.blogger.com/profile/10174343163494452459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-42066269545237617542011-06-02T06:43:58.231-07:002011-06-02T06:43:58.231-07:00શું છોડને જ ગરજ છે ઉગવાની ? કેટલો વેધક પ્રશ્ન છે આ...શું છોડને જ ગરજ છે ઉગવાની ? કેટલો વેધક પ્રશ્ન છે આ... કદાચ આનો જવાબ મારી પાસે તો નથી જ . પણ છોડ થયા છીયે તો અનુકુળ-પ્રતિકુળ સંજોગોમાં ઉગવું તો પડશે જ ને ? keep રાઇટીંગ પ્લીઝ. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00310886877534525293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-26584791421056367982011-06-02T02:25:07.816-07:002011-06-02T02:25:07.816-07:00Bhumikaajee,
Whatever you have written was correc...Bhumikaajee,<br /><br />Whatever you have written was correct by and large before a decade or so. Now-a-days also it may be true in some cases, but situation has changed a lot in last few years.<br /><br />Yes, I agree that the social system in our country, or in many other countries, is that after marriage the girl leaves her parental home and go to her new home. Naturally some adjustment will require. (We adjust ourselves even when we visit someone as guest.) Some adjustment is being done by husband in her in-laws also, which may not be easily visible. But after all staying together requires adjustments.<br /><br />Other thing is that marriage not a full stop for career of a girl. If you look around, you will find a lot of women who are married and have achieved desired career. From a computer operator to an industrialist or chair-person of a large private sector bank, women are there. So it is depend on the choice. Yes, the girl should be open and firm in her views about her career before marriage and should loudly express it to everyone concerned and she should select her husband accordingly. You can not have your cake and eat it too. Some adjustment/sacrifice-of-choice will require in personal life to achieve the desired career. The same is true for man also.Navinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13982415603640054169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-62296091497795588182011-06-01T22:51:43.847-07:002011-06-01T22:51:43.847-07:00khoob j saachi vaat par tame dhyaan doryu che.... ...khoob j saachi vaat par tame dhyaan doryu che.... hu tamari sathe ekdam sahmat chu. khub j saras lakhyu che...Yashpalsinh Jadejahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15240137442999652274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-6236047725197955622011-06-01T05:47:39.485-07:002011-06-01T05:47:39.485-07:00society seriously needs to consider this. Girls sh...society seriously needs to consider this. Girls should not be made to study just to please them like giving lollipop to a kid. And i never understood why adjustment is necessary? If girl n a boy are perfect match...they would never need such word. Understanding would be enough between them to know each others dreamRahul Kundnaninoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127408451370942575.post-10858217063715025012011-06-01T05:18:12.072-07:002011-06-01T05:18:12.072-07:00welcm to the bettle field bhums...
point is not p...welcm to the bettle field bhums...<br /><br />point is not prooving oneself,point is to fight against injustice...here i like to gv example of bhagvadgita...y arjun was not feeling wel?cz it was the bettle against his own family...similarly,ved vyas knew tht one need to fight against one's family in many sense...being a woman,y she has to compromise her thoughts while making a life's decision?y cnt she express her views regarding life,partner,degree etc?b a rebel...Harsh Pandyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17334677401640260068noreply@blogger.com